Impper posted:Cycloneboy posted:saying that you need to experience romantic love in order to completely describe its various elements is as absurd as saying you need to experience a given drug in order to completely describe its various elements.
ummmmmmmmmmm lol
oftentimes, people take the same drug and experience different effects, learn about reality.
Impper posted:yes they do. but the only possible way you could say what you've just said is to never have had those experiences. people also react differently to a violent punch in the gut but that's another thing that you don't just read about
oh wow, it hurts and i don't want it to happen again, i could never have understood this without having it happen to me. *rolls eyes so hard they pop out of his skull*
get this: it hurts like hell.
Impper posted:well if you dont believe in experience i'd be glad to roll down to texas and punch you then feed u a drug and then i can fuck u til u fall in love w. me
i know what all those things would feel like + none of them are good.
Impper posted:i didnt threaten sexual assault. it'd be consensual
uh... no it wouldn't.
Cycloneboy posted:saying that you need to experience romantic love in order to completely describe its various elements is as absurd as saying you need to experience a given drug in order to completely describe its various elements. in point of fact, the qualitative experience is in many ways an impediment to reaching the deeper truths, and if you want a direct story of the immediate, qualitative experience, you can simply listen and read, which will always give a more complete image than the parochialism of how your brain reacted.
lmao
AmericanNazbro posted:from the mouth of babes...
you know that means it's true, right?
AmericanNazbro posted:you want to really know what love is? read a manga - billy, Asexual, age 15
actually, i'd recommend a metastudy on the behavior of people in love.
AmericanNazbro posted:you want to really know what love is? read a manga - billy, Asexual, age 15
Cycloneboy posted:AmericanNazbro posted:from the mouth of babes...
you know that means it's true, right?
of course. you'ure posts on human interaction are canon
Cycloneboy posted:hold on a sec, let me just rely on my qualitative experience of love. *falls in love with like a million different terrible partners, each the result of a broader trend he is incapable of noticing or changing because he has no understanding about how his own behavior is leading him into these bad situations again and again*
im sorry u been burnt by love billy
Cycloneboy posted:i'm actually not scared bc apparently unlike y'all i'm capable of adjusting behavior without being first the victim of its negative consequences.
i.e. being a scaredy cat
*makes sure to have someone with him the first time he takes a new drug* oooh what a scaredy cat
*checks his mirrors before driving* oooh what a scaredy cat
caution is not fear. fear is emotion; caution is reason. Learn THe Difference.
babyfinland posted:look whos comparing romantic relationships with car crashes lol
BAD RELATIONSHIPS ARE sorry bad relationships are a lot like car crashes, in that you should engage in behaviors to avoid them.
Impper posted:im not surte what "adjusting your behavior" has to do with finding love anyway? what a weird way to think about it... sort of a ... Mystery Method way...
many people wind up making the same mistake in selecting their partner or pursuing a relationship over and over again. not doing those things, including by pre-emptively being aware of them and adjusting for them (e.g. acknowledging the fact that a normal, healthy romantic relationship is not going to grant you Personal Fulfillment of the kind that activism, ideology, charity, etc can), is a Good Idea.
babyfinland posted:in my experience, normal healthy relationship does grant personal fulfillment
i mean fulfillment more like... meaning or purpose.
Cycloneboy posted:babyfinland posted:in my experience, normal healthy relationship does grant personal fulfillment
i mean fulfillment more like... meaning or purpose.
ya also coffee makers don't bake pizzas
EmanuelaOrlandi posted:lol look at this n00b who has never read BALLARD i actively seek both car crashes and bad relationships yo
hahaha hell yea boy