angelbutt_dollface posted:this newslady is upset because some jerko sent her an email that was all huffy about her weight which makes sense i guess but then she starts acting like she's been cyberbullied and eventually compares getting an email telling her to slim down to problems people face wrt racism, ableism and the like which pretty much forced my eyeballs to roll completely around and im now looking at my own brain
lol i just watched this and lol
gonna need you to just go ahead and lose 60 pounds, mmkay? thaaanks
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Bob Avakian
Chairman
Revolutionary Communist Party
Hi! I'm a sex worker. And I'm avoiding doing my homework so I'm going to go on a rant.
I've done many different kinds of sex work. I've been a cam girl, a porn performer, a professional sub, and a performer at a peep show (similar to a stripper). I've also been working in retail and food service simultaneously.
I get so frustrated at how I'm treated at work. It really gets to me. I find myself involuntarily crying once I get into my car to drive home. I hate how dehumanizing it is. People don't acknowledge me as a person. They think I'm less than them because of my job. Maybe they don't actively think that, but that's how they treat me. Oh, by the way, I'm talking about the food service job.
When I'm doing sex work I can refuse a customer. I can be rude to them if they are being rude to me. I don't have to apologize for their mistakes. I don't have to be sweet when they are being inappropriate. I negotiate my limits, and I only do what I feel comfortable doing. They don't get to order off the menu, I'm not going to bend over backwards for them.
I find it oppressive to work for minimum wage. I find it oppressive to act like the customer is always right. I find it dehumanizing to apologize for things that aren't my fault, like how much something costs or if you order something wrong and you want it remade the correct way. I find it dehumanizing to say "Hi! How are you?" and in response get "Yeah I just need a blah blah blah" and then have a customer go back to their cell phone conversation. I hate being reduced to a cash register.
getfiscal posted:like i think that having sex with a prostitute is abusing a woman, for the same sort of reason that having sex with a child is
so women are basically children?
Petrol posted:so women are basically children?
i mean that when they are put into a position where they are commodifying their bodies then there is a distortion of consent, like, you can't go by what an individual woman says about it because they are put into that position by their class. there is also a general sort of harm that comes from commodifying women's bodies (an externality) which would be sort of repugnant to cost into the situation in my mind.
gyrofry posted:the answer to the externality, of course, is to buy commodification offsets with every porn download/lap dance
Yeah but where would the money go to? Like you can't plant trees to combat rape culture.
getfiscal posted:Petrol posted:
so women are basically children?
i mean that when they are put into a position where they are commodifying their bodies then there is a distortion of consent
perhaps the same could be said for all labour
Ironicwarcriminal posted:perhaps the same could be said for all labour
which is why i support criminalizing the hiring of labour. :angel: