*if you avoid having babies. google for tips and tricks for having safe sex. always have safe sex ckid.
gyrofry posted:in order for a thing to be regarded as trauma, must it not be perceived as traumatic
no. if i hit you really hard in the head and you forget it, it's still trauma.
EmanuelaOrlandi posted:i remember thinking when it happened and over the next few months 'this is probably rape right?' but also i did enjoy it for the most part so i dont think so really
being forced to have sex without the possibility of withdrawing consent is called rape, regardless of whether or not you "enjoyed it." hth
Cycloneboy posted:EmanuelaOrlandi posted:
i remember thinking when it happened and over the next few months 'this is probably rape right?' but also i did enjoy it for the most part so i dont think so really
being forced to have sex without the possibility of withdrawing consent is called rape, regardless of whether or not you "enjoyed it." hth
you seem to ignore the fact that he could've at any moment decided not to be a sleazeball and come clean to his then girlfriend and bam no more raping leverage and also no more rape-by-adultery (surely fucking under the false premise of an exclusive relationship is rape, innit cboy?) so in fact the real rape victim here is as always the chaste modest girl that Dru took advantage of.
If we analyze this further it is likely that Dru also coerced that other chick to have sex with him and that only due to overwhelming social circumstances she felt compelled to force a continuing quasi-relationship status on him to feel better about the social shame she's encouraged to experience as a promiscuous young woman.
don't blame the victims.
"What? you're cheating on me?! I can't believe it! I'm also cheating on you! I'm so happy!".
weirdos.
Transient_Grace posted:you seem to ignore the fact that he could've at any moment decided not to be a sleazeball and come clean to his then girlfriend and bam no more raping leverage and also no more rape-by-adultery (surely fucking under the false premise of an exclusive relationship is rape, innit cboy?) so in fact the real rape victim here is as always the chaste modest girl that Dru took advantage of.
If we analyze this further it is likely that Dru also coerced that other chick to have sex with him and that only due to overwhelming social circumstances she felt compelled to force a continuing quasi-relationship status on him to feel better about the social shame she's encouraged to experience as a promiscuous young woman.
don't blame the victims.
yeah, and [insert other victim of rape by blackmail] could've easily [let the thing they were blackmailed with be revealed]. extortion works and the fact that it works isn't the sin of the victim.
AmericanNazbro posted:i don't know if cyclonenerd's ultimate intentions were to get people here to regurgitate and repurpose misogynist's rape rhetoric, but regardless it's getting tiresome
AGREED, EPIC AGREED.
swampman posted:this is one of those sad situations where people enable another person to become more annoying, and in doing so themselves become annoying
yeah we should never have voted for Emanuela Orlandi to become mod.
Noice posted:cycloneboy u see that one law and order svu where the guy striper got raped by those women and one of them ends up coming back in the next season as the assistant da without no one acknowlding that she is a rapist, fuked up but true imo
no i don't watch many detective shows because they have a huge cult of the police complex mixed with "it's okay to beat up people during interrogations" (i can take either my police being awesome or them engaging in police brutality, not both).
damn that's fucked up, but, as you say, true to life.
i looked it up and apparently it's supposed to be two different characters, just played by the same actress, which is ridiculous in its own way.
EmanuelaOrlandi posted:i mean yeah stabler goes a little over the line sometimes but he just has a temper, not some 'its ok to beat people up during interrogations shit.' jeez...
i never watched law & order, i just have a general policy against most cop shows bc they're repugnant.
discipline posted:haha I was telling everyone you were just a gimmick but after reading this exchange I really do believe you are a virgin and also autistic
hha yeah - i cant stop laughing!