#121
i dont think i just sit in the empty seat cos i take the green line, thank nightly news for the past ~20 yrs for clearing it for me
#122
i'd never take the green line with your smelly ass sitting next to me
#123
Attn Feminists: When boarding a bus, out of consideration for other passengers baggage is left on the outside, in the outer compartment - the same etiquette applies to emotional baggage.
#124
remember that lf women's thread where they had a long discussion about how if a man is at a party they shouldn't lean up against the wall near a woman because it suggests dominance and control and will scare the woman.
#125
i thought leaning against things implied weakness, infirmiry, and "noodle legs"?
#126
women sit next to me on the bus all the time, even over other women in adjacent seats. grandmas in particular like to sit next to me.
#127

EmanuelaOrlandi posted:

so women are uncomfortable with men in public spaces but white women are generally more afraid of black men than white men.. does that mean a black man should be more careful to avoid white women than a white man should be or is there a definite boundary for physical proximity between all men and women regardless of race which is based on some factor besides comfort/fear/whatever?



well if theres a black man on the bus you should quickly swallow a xanax to steel your nerves and try to fill up the most vagina-adjacent seat before he gets there. be sure to yell "CONNECT FOUR" as loudly as you can so everybody knows you just prevented a rape

#128
or it just indicates that you're drunk and tired and looking for to lean on something for a bit of respite.
#129
wow stop brosplaining
#130
I frequently find myself in jam packed subway cars at rush hour, buses at 1000% capacity where the drivers roars past crowded pickup stops because there's no everloving way a single extra person can squeeze on, with an empty seat next to me cos noone will take it. I live in such a considerate city <3
#131
lmao @ this thread. wow . holy shit
#132

littlegreenpills posted:

I frequently find myself in jam packed subway cars at rush hour, buses at 1000% capacity where the drivers roars past crowded pickup stops because there's no everloving way a single extra person can squeeze on, with an empty seat next to me cos noone will take it. I live in such a considerate city <3

one day you'll be sitting there after a long day of work and you'll be like sigh why won't anyone in this cruel city sit beside me and someone will plop down beside you and you'll look up and it'll be your wife and you'll smile from ear to ear and she'll say "i hope there's toilet paper left at home because i've got to dump a load."

#133
I understand babyfinland's position but the problem is that all this squeamishness about interaction with the public leaves us a poorer, less virile society filled with sadness and suspicion
#134

Impper posted:

lmao @ this thread. wow . holy shit



you've been given an auspicious gift, my friend. the ability to smite people in this thread. you have the power to probate half this forum indefinitely. become who you were nazborn to be, embrace your celestial destiny

#135

getfiscal posted:

remember that lf women's thread where they had a long discussion about how if a man is at a party they shouldn't lean up against the wall near a woman because it suggests dominance and control and will scare the woman.



the real question is why is an alleged "feminist" attending a Rape Orgy

#136

Ironicwarcriminal posted:

I understand babyfinland's position but the problem is that all this squeamishness about interaction with the public leaves us a poorer, less virile society filled with sadness and suspicion



what squeamishness

#137
Unless the train is so empty that I can sit without being next to someone, I will stand.
#138
i got onto an intercity train today and chuckled to myself because there were only like five open seats left and they were all beside young women and i was like ah yes the baby finland dilemma in the flesh. and in WWBFD? fashion i decided to sit beside the person dressed the most modestly.
#139
so you guys make strangers really uncomfortable huh
#140

Crow posted:

so you guys make strangers really uncomfortable huh

actually in the 1970s i was referred to in the new yorker as "the human quaalude" because my mere presence in a room was enough to relax even the most frenetic of states in young drug addicts. i also wore a clown nose.

#141
whatever happened to quaaludes?
#142

babyfinland posted:

Ironicwarcriminal posted:
I understand babyfinland's position but the problem is that all this squeamishness about interaction with the public leaves us a poorer, less virile society filled with sadness and suspicion


what squeamishness



about sitting next to people because of their sex.

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#145

gyrofry posted:

whatever happened to quaaludes?



The DEA managed to get producers to shut down and eliminated the supply and therefore the public health problem.

All this contrary to the idiotic stoners and wooly-headed activists who still insist that prohibition doesn't work.

#146
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#147

Ironicwarcriminal posted:

babyfinland posted:

Ironicwarcriminal posted:
I understand babyfinland's position but the problem is that all this squeamishness about interaction with the public leaves us a poorer, less virile society filled with sadness and suspicion


what squeamishness

about sitting next to people because of their sex.



nothing to do with squeamishness son

#148

Ironicwarcriminal posted:

gyrofry posted:

whatever happened to quaaludes?

The DEA managed to get producers to shut down and eliminated the supply and therefore the public health problem.

All this contrary to the idiotic stoners and wooly-headed activists who still insist that prohibition doesn't work.



actually they just invented way better drugs and everyone took those instead

#149

babyfinland posted:

Ironicwarcriminal posted:
babyfinland posted:
Ironicwarcriminal posted:
I understand babyfinland's position but the problem is that all this squeamishness about interaction with the public leaves us a poorer, less virile society filled with sadness and suspicion


what squeamishness
about sitting next to people because of their sex.


nothing to do with squeamishness son



How can we work towards a truly joyous brother/sisterhood if we can't even sit next to each other on the bus

#150
very carefully
#151
i turn every Cityrail train i'm on into a non-stop situationist party
#152

Impper posted:

mao. this thread. holy.

#153
I don';t have a girlfriend so how am I supposed to get one if I can't sit next to strange women wherever I want to?
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#157

now that you've admitted to yourself that strange women are the only ones you'll be getting, have you tried online dating? Oh!



Well I use wikipedia to look up a lot of dates I'm not sure about but I haven't found any women to sit next to there. Oh! ps are there any ladies here?

#158
i'm a single lady
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#160
lollin @ the OP posts