gyrofry posted:
sex is natural sex is fun
ya
sex is fun
sex is right for everyone
sex is hot
sex is cool
sex is good so go have it, fool!!!!!!!!!!!!
however people who have sex with a lot of different people are almost always either neurotic or misogynistic
Groulxsmith posted:
the only thing jimmy carter was ever correct about was his quote about lust. the problem is not necessarily having sex but rather what having sex makes you do and think. there are some virgins who are just as bad as the promiscuous in that sense.
however people who have sex with a lot of different people are almost always either neurotic or misogynistic
define ' a lot'
define 'that well'
i think it's impossible for sex to really occur without disturbing implications in most casual settings, like people having a one-night stand or flings with co-workers or acquaintances. i think it's a good rule of thumb for men at least to establish a rapport and comfort with a woman before you have sex with a woman so you can at least reduce the chance that some form of coercion is influencing what you are doing.
Groulxsmith posted:
actually if you are having sex with someone out of boredom or for the challenge or if you do not know them well that is one sex act too far imo
yeah that's slouching in a rampant direction imo
but i can't draw a line between that and where it becomes ok because it is murky and raises some pointed questions about your own self in the process
Impper posted:
it has something to do with patriarchy bro u wouldnt understand
this but unironically
Groulxsmith posted:
i know it reeks of Care Bearism and the whole privilege thing has rather deservedly become a bit of a joke but to not see power relations in the interaction when you're trying to sleep with someone from a disadvantaged group is a bit of willful ignorance. even in our "permissive" society, sex is still a big deal and deep down we all know that
so what difference does how well you know the person, the reason you know eachother, etc... have to do with whether or not there are power dynamics? are you supposed to be like, 'well i love this person so im ok with sleeping them even though there's unequal power dynamics at work'? That doesn't make any sense.
thirdplace posted:
i hear what you're saying but sexual tension is so dehumanizing that i've always found it easiest to make a meaningful connection with a women after its been broken (or when it never existed in the first place)
"me, me, me!" -- me
thirdplace posted:
i hear what you're saying but sexual tension is so dehumanizing that i've always found it easiest to make a meaningful connection with a women after its been broken (or when it never existed in the first place)
i definitely agree but i think the ends can't necessarily justify the means
babyfinland posted:
have a ton of sex with your spouse because then its beautiful and good
Pervert
Crow posted:babyfinland posted:
have a ton of sex with your spouse because then its beautiful and goodPervert
alas the personal is political