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take it easy ladies
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let me talk to them
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ladies cant be ninjas
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a heartfelt happy womens day to all of the 1-2 women who happen to read this thread
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what happened to saribari?
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she was purged
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or this http://www.rhizzone.net/forum/post/215815/
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gyrofry posted:

ladies cant be ninjas



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At an unspecified time back in July, my ex asked to borrow my phone to call her Doctor. She then went through my instagram and blocked and deleted a bunch of people, then went through my texts and found one from my platonic, female friend who she knew was dating my other friend. All the text asked was if I wanted to go hiking that day, to which my reply was “no sorry.” Over this text, she physically attacked me, ransacked my house and stole my Mom’s iPhone, so I called the police. Police showed up, she lied and told them I hit HER, and they arrested me and charged me with domestic battery and preventing a 911 call (yes, seriously, even though I fucking called them). The cop told me that in California, the police are MANDATED to make an arrest at ANY domestic violence call, and guess who the fuck that is 99% of the time? He literally told me I fucked myself over by calling the cops (srs). I spent 10 hours sitting in jail before my friends were finally able to bail me out. It was Friday night, and so it got pretty packed in there, and the other dudes were asking why I was in. I told them what happened, and all of them advised me to just take whatever plea bargain I could because no one ever beats DV charges.

I finally got out and went home, and went to see a Lawyer that Monday. He was recommended by a family friend who is a judge, because he had a winning record in DV cases. I told him the story, and he laughed and said these cases just get more and more ridiculous. He said that once you are charged with DV, it is extremely hard to beat because feminist groups have lobbied for years to erode due process in DV cases with legislation like VAWA (Violence Against Women Act), which he explained, LITERALLY means JUST women, is NOT gender neutral in any way, and provides men no protection from abusive women (or other men). He explained that essentially, at this point, men are guilty until proven innocent when it comes to DV. He had cases where cops showed up to find guys bloody and bruised, but admitted to shoving the girl and lost. He had one where a woman attacked a guy who did not fight back at all, but she hurt herself in the process of hitting him and the guy lost. Others where the neighbors called the cops over a loud argument, there were no visible marks and the WIFE came in to testify FOR the guy, and he STILL lost. The basic formula the courts use is “woman saying it happened = it happened, woman says it didn’t happen = it happened, she just has battered woman syndrome.” The burden of proof is ridiculously low in DV cases, her TESTIMONY counts as evidence. They can bring up prior convictions as evidence, which is literally unconstitutional but they make an exception for DV (srs). They get a protective order against you, so if you try to convince her to drop the charges you get a felony strike count for dissuading a witness. If you get a liberal judge, they side with the woman because feminism. If you get a conservative judge, they side with her because “women need to be protected.” My lawyer said that since my case was so unreasonably ridiculous, he would take the case, but also said there was a good chance I would lose. He actually first recommended that I just take a plea bargain, because the prosecutors would be more than willing to negotiate sentencing as long as they get the conviction (this is because they prosecute ALL DV cases in order to make the District Attorney look like a hero for “Cracking down on wife beaters”). He said this was my best bet to stay out of Jail. The problem with this is that I am a Licensed Vocational Nurse (LVN) working on a career in nursing, and if I was convicted of DV I would more than likely lose my license and my entire career. I told him my situation and said I wanted to fight it, and he said it made sense in my case but warned me that if I lost the minimum sentence for first time offense was 6 months in jail and thousands of dollars in fines, mandatory anger management and abuser reform classes, and mandatory donations to women’s shelters, and that there was a substantial chance of me losing. According to him, my best chance of winning was her simply not showing up for the trial.

Fast forward to the arraignment, and it was fucking ridiculous. There were 3 prosecutors in the courtroom, one for pot possession, one for DUI’s, and one for DV. The first two were pretty much boring and professional, the third was fucking outrageous. She was literally yelling and shouting at the judge and public defenders, being totally unprofessional and emotional in front of the whole court, and somehow getting away with it. When my case came up, she demanded a restraining order against me, because I was “dangerous and abusive” but my lawyer argued it back and forth for several minutes with a bunch of legal jargon I couldn’t follow and the judge reduced it to a protective order, which just means I could not initiate contact with her but didn’t have to leave if she showed up somewhere I was at etc. The judge asked the prosecutor some questions about my ex, and the prosecutors response was “IDK, we haven’t been able to contact her yet.” A pre trial was then set for September. We showed up to that, and mine and everyone else waiting’s court appointments were canceled an hour after we got there with no prior notice. We then rescheduled the pretrial for October. We showed up to that, and just as my lawyer said, their plea bargain offer was dogshit: plead guilty to everything and I wouldn’t have to go to jail. This, in spite of STILL having not managed to contact her at all so far. They absolutely would not reduce charges to “disturbing the peace” or something harmless, so I had no choice but to spend thousands of dollars fighting it. My trial was set for December. I had to gather as many character witnesses as possible, all of them female, preferably ones I had been in relationships with, because according to my lawyer nobody takes men’s word seriously in these cases. I had an interesting experience of calling up all my ex gfs/hookup buddies etc, and most of them were willing to testify for me. My lawyer had them all interviewed and prepared a case and we were good to go, AND THEN HE RANDOMLY GOT CANCER a month before the trial. Yes, seriously, the life threatening kind that forced him to drop all his cases for immediate chemotherapy. The process of finding a quality lawyer to take a case from another lawyer scheduled for trial on a months’ notice is frantic and miserable, and involves several court appointments to do for some reason. Anyways, this lawyer was female and also had a winning record vs DV, but she was much less optimistic about my case. Again, she said my best chance of winning was my ex not showing up.

The “calendar call” a few days before the trial came along, which is where the prosecution and defense outline their cases to the judge to see if its worth having a trial over. Apparently they do this because the court system is backlogged as fuck and they want to avoid wasting the county’s money on dumb trials. My lawyer was making a HUGE push to get the case dismissed at this meeting to avoid a trial, and spent about an hour presenting my side and citing various legal jargon I didn’t follow well. She also had both a transcription and a recording of the 911 call I made, which had about 20 minutes of back and forth between me and my ex, because they wanted me to stay on the line for safety reasons. She cited numerous times where things she said in the call blatantly contradicted what she said in the police report, including her not only admitting to going through my phone, but also literally admitting to hitting me in the face. The judge asked the prosecution what she had. STILL NO CONTACT WITH MY EX. Any photos of bruises or anything? Nope. Evidence of any kind? Nope. Yet she still wanted to prosecute. My lawyer argued that they had nothing, and that this would increase my legal fees from around $3500 to around $10000 for going to trial. The judge ruled in prosecutions favor, and the trial was set to go. The day of the trial came, my friends and family were all there, and thank fucking whatever, she did not show up. For some reason, the judge was different and so was the prosecution (the judge changed a lot actually because apparently the judge for that courtroom retired so they were just rotating judges till the Mayor appointed a new one). The case was dismissed.

While I did not suffer a conviction, my lawyer said I likely would have if she showed up, because all it really takes to persuade a jury is her crying and talking about how hard it is to be a single mother etc. Since they don’t actually need real evidence to convict for DV, the entire trial boils down to character attacks and emotional appeals, which almost always work in the females favor. In spite of not being convicted, this false allegation did a massive amount of damage. I owe over $10k in legal fees. I had to take tons of time off work for court appointments, resulting in lost wages. Worst of all, I was accepted to my first choice BSN (Bachelor of Science in Nursing) program to start Fall 2013, and had to cancel my plans to stay home and fight this shit. I re applied for Spring 2014 and was denied :’( These programs are EXTREMELY competitive and I spent so much time and effort taking tons of units at CC and studying to get straight A’s after reading Sarge’s “get your shit together” post, I was so close to finally getting it together and not being an embarrassment and a fuckup and a loser, and it all went down the drain because of a crazy fucking girl. It’s like that part in the Odyssey where Odysseus is almost home to Ithaca, when some retard opens up that crazy wind bag the God’s gave them and blows them back to the other side of the Earth. Oh, and that night I spent in jail? That was the night of the last Helm’s Deep show, which I obviously didn’t get to play. She also still has my Mom’s iPhone.

My mental health suffered terribly from all of this. Since the night of my arrest I have not had a single nights’ sleep without nightmares of trials, police, and being attacked by my ex. I wake up in the night and am not sure if I’m in a dream or awake. In spite of this being over half a year ago, I am still finding my ex’s fucking red hairs everywhere in the house, and I freak the fuck out every single time I find one. My performance at work was terrible; my boss straight up took me aside and asked what was wrong it was so bad. Every time a customer approached me from behind I would freak out. I couldn’t pay attention to their questions or answer them coherently. I’d be taking a shit and someone would knock on the bathroom door and I’d practically fall off the toilet seat. I’d get the bathroom key and get confused about whether I was going to the bathroom or weather I just went to the bathroom and was putting the key back. I was at the gym on the treadmill thinking “why the fuck am I so tired” then realizing I had already gone to the gym before work that day. My perception of time was fucked, I kept showing up to work at the wrong times on the wrong days, and I’d drive to work thinking I was going to the gym and vise versa. I went to a therapist about this after the trial and he diagnosed me with PTSD (srs).

My point in telling this story is that crazy girls can very easily ruin your life, literally. Thanks to feminism, the legal system is rigged against men in unconstitutional, extreme, mind blowing ways, and has thus weaponized false accusations. There are literally no checks on terrible female behavior. They can hit you, steal from you, give you diseases, start shit with other guys who then beat your ass, stop taking birth control and enslave you via child support and easily deny you visitation, etc and if you try to defend yourself in any way they can imprison you on a mere accusation. There is simply no winning vs crazies. The only defense is to avoid them like the plague that they are. Keep in mind, NORMAL girls (IE most females) will not do any of the above, and I am not ascribing such tendencies to females as a whole, just a certain subset of them that gravitates in hardcore/metal etc music scenes in higher amounts than other circles.

I am posting this so that you can learn from my mistakes, and avoid crazy girls in your personal life. I do not care about my own reputation at this point, you can make fun of me, not believe me, think I’m an idiot, do whatever you want, nothing you could say could possibly hurt me after living through the misery of what I just described. I just do not want any of you to suffer as I have suffered, regardless of what you think of me. If this post saves even ONE person from my fate, I will consider it a success and worth doing.
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let me talk to her
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conec posted:

damb peepaw that really sucks @ss homie i`m sorry


i think what peepaw is doing here, is copying and pasting a large block of text from somewhere else, and not describing his own thoughts, experiences and opinions.

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c_man posted:

conec posted:

damb peepaw that really sucks @ss homie i`m sorry

i think what peepaw is doing here, is copying and pasting a large block of text from somewhere else, and not describing his own thoughts, experiences and opinions.



Off topic, but your view is not entirely accurate: you are right that there are feminists who work to actually help women, but there are also many who pro actively (ie not just on the internet) have worked to fuck men over. Corrupt family court and DV laws are perfect examples of this: feminists lobbying in DC is what got the Tender Years Doctrine and VAWA passed, both of which have had massive negative effects on men. And yes, there are asshole MRA's out there, but one point that is largely overlooked about this is that just because someone shits on feminism does not mean they are an MRA. I have strongly disliked feminism my entire life and literally did not know what MRA's were until I got out of jail and started googling DV laws. 4chan and reddit (except r/mensrights obviously) are NOT MRA groups, they are just gigantic anonymous message boards where people can say whatever they want free of consequence.

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so is that from E/N or tumblr?
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I am still finding my ex’s fucking red hairs



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Over 11,000 sexual assault kits, some dating back to the 1980's, were found abandoned in a Detroit Police storage facility back in 2009.

Not long after the rape kits were discovered, Worthy pushed to start the processing with Michigan State Police.

So far, 1,600 rape kits have been processed, resulting in the identification of about 100 serial rapists and ten convicted rapists, according to Worthy.

Worthy told reporters that perpetrators have moved on from Michigan to commit similar crimes in 23 other states.

Nationally, an estimated 400,000 rape kits have gone unprocessed, allowing rapists to remain free and their victims to wonder if they will ever see justice.

Fourteen prosecutions have resulted from what is being called the "Detroit Rape Kit Project", including the case of DeShawn Starks, 32.

On February 19, 2003, Starks pretended to be having stomach pains as he approached a woman who was returning to her home in Detroit, according to prosecutors. Starks pulled out a gun, robbed the woman, then drove her to a wooded area where he raped her. The woman's unprocessed rape kit remained in storage for ten years until Worthy's office launched their investigations into the abandoned rape kits. DNA linked Starks to that case.

Prosecutors says Starks went on to rape another woman in 2003. That rape kit was also placed in storage and left unprocessed for ten years.

On November 19, 2013, investigators say Starks struck again, raping two friends as they were walking home from a family gathering.

Starks was just sentenced to 45 to 90 years in prison.
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the system works
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coincidentally, abandoned detroit police rape warehouse is the name of my chillwave band
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