roseweird posted:ok, here.
gyrofry, i think the way you phrased your question is misleading, and reduces a complex issue to a binary choice made by women alone. how women respond to their situation as individuals and as a class matters, but i think the starting point for the discussion should instead be the structures and aims of bourgeois marriage and the nuclear family as institutions, to see what demands it makes of men and women and how it proposes to compensate them in return.
from a revolutionary point of view, it doesn't really make sense to me to ask this question of women as a class, or to present it as a dichotomy. you shut down discipline when she protested, on this technicality of the difference between "have" and "raise", but if you didn't mean to imply "raise" when you said "have" you wouldn't be asking this question, as women who decide to have children would not necessarily be raising them.
this is an important preconception to acknowledge because the structure of the bourgeois family reifies woman's position in the home and man's position as laborer, while capitalist and non-revolutionary interpretations of feminism ("you can have it all!") leave these values intact and encourages women to satisfy both of them instead of destroying them completely.
so what is your question, exactly? maybe it is, "are women more valuable as revolutionaries, or as incubators and nurses of men who will be revolutionaries?" is that it?
thats a different noun
NoFreeWill posted:lol. no seriously tho what is the cool proposed post-nuclear-family theory for how society would be structured in communism. certainly the USSR didn't abolish it.
some people just oppose things for the sake of opposing them
NoFreeWill posted:lol. no seriously tho what is the cool proposed post-nuclear-family theory for how society would be structured in communism. certainly the USSR didn't abolish it.
kibbutz
NoFreeWill posted:lol. no seriously tho what is the cool proposed post-nuclear-family theory for how society would be structured in communism. certainly the USSR didn't abolish it.
*points you politely to most of human history*
roseweird posted:NoFreeWill posted:
my current gf keeps "joking" about babies and its obvious she does and i don't so its a difficult subject for me haha. maybe if i could have a kid and hand it off to a communal babyraising collective i would do it, and she could volunteer as part of a local collective. that would rule.
yeah, that kind of arrangement would be great. (in that scenario you should probably volunteer too though?) it would be better if you didn't know which was yours, just that they were like, in there somewhere, but whatever. baby steps. sorry about the awkward situation with yr gf
Ironicwarcriminal posted:
capitalism has destroyed the traditional family so i don't really see where feminism comes into it
how do you define the traditional family? when did capitalism destroy it and how should we characterize what has replaced it?
- This isn't Debate and Discussion
- Over the past century
- Hegemonic Deracination
roseweird posted:gyrofry has been setting off these threads with stereotyped provocative questions
roseweird posted:that's fine. i'm fine with shipping babies any old way. babies in trains, planes, boats, trucks, whatever, just move those babies
i admire your gusto
roseweird posted:that's fine. i'm fine with shipping babies any old way. babies in trains, planes, boats, trucks, whatever, just move those babies
push the babies into cattle cars imho
SariBari posted:you're gonna get them all together away from us? think they wont' get wise? you're gonna be screwed
best film ever made imo. demands multiple viewings